Self-Soothing

When we’re feeling overwhelmed or stressed, it can be difficult to find ways to calm ourselves down. One effective way to soothe yourself is by using the five senses: sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell. By engaging with your senses in a deliberate way, you can create a sense of calm and relaxation. Here are some ways to use the five senses to soothe yourself:

Sight

Visual stimulation can be a powerful way to calm yourself down. You can try:

  • Looking at calming images, such as nature scenes or artwork
  • Using a lava lamp or other soothing visual display
  • Lighting candles or fairy lights to create a calming atmosphere
  • Watching a calming video or movie

Sound

Sound can also be a powerful tool for self-soothing. You can try:

  • Listening to calming music or sounds, such as nature sounds or white noise
  • Using a sound machine or app to create a calming environment
  • Singing or humming a soothing tune to yourself
  • Focusing on the sounds around you, such as birds chirping or leaves rustling in the wind

Touch

Physical touch can be a comforting way to soothe yourself. You can try:

  • Hugging a loved one or a pet
  • Wrapping yourself in a cozy blanket
  • Using a weighted blanket or stuffed animal for comfort
  • Taking a warm bath or shower

Taste

Taste can also be a powerful sense for self-soothing. You can try:

  • Sipping on a calming tea, such as chamomile or lavender
  • Eating a piece of your favorite comfort food
  • Savoring a piece of chocolate or other treat
  • Chewing gum or sucking on a mint to create a calming sensation

Smell

Finally, smell can be a powerful way to soothe yourself. You can try:

  • Burning candles or incense with calming scents, such as lavender or vanilla
  • Using essential oils, either in a diffuser or applied directly to your skin
  • Taking a walk outside and breathing in the fresh air
  • Smelling a comforting scent, such as a favorite perfume or the scent of baking bread

By engaging with each of the five senses, you can guide yourself to relaxation. These techniques can be used in combination or individually, depending on what works best for you.


Next: Manage Anxiety